Thursday, September 16, 2010

HOMESCHOOL VILLAGE (RULES / DISCIPLINE)


This week at The Homeschool Village the topic is "your rules and share how you handle homeschool interruptions and discipline".

We recently started using Accountable Kids for our 3 & 5 year old. Good behavior is rewarded, bad behavior is disciplined. For instance if my 5 year old whines and complains about doing homeschooling I take away a reward card, if he doesn't whine and get's his work done he gets a reward ticket. Once he receives 10 tickets he will receive an award whether it be a special place we go to, toy, t.v. show, etc.


I try to combat bad behavior with Bible Verses. So if my 5 year old is complaining I will tell him to use self-control and remind him of verse Phillipians 2:14 (Do all things without complaining and disputing)
I recently posted a few Bible Verses up by our homeschooling that I want my children to remember when it comes to discipline (it has helped me too - to remember these verses!)


We also do use time out as another means of discipline. I find that this gives the child time to reflect on what they have done and a chance to claim down.

Distractions - wow, that's a tough one! I have a 5, 3 & 1 year old & another due in December so my life is full of distractions! We begin homeschooling at 8:00 AM, the baby sleeps till about 10:00 AM so I try to get all the homeschooling done before she wakes up. With our 3 year old, I give him things that keep him busy but sometimes do not always work, let's just say I pray ALOT during homeschooling time!

Rules I try to stick by:
Honor your mother & father
Be respectful
Be a peacemaker with your brother & sister
Use self-control
Honor Jesus

This all takes time and everyday is a new challenge but it's God who thankfully gives me wisdom in this parenting journey - without Him I couldn't do it!

8 comments:

  1. Awesome! I feel like such a bad parent (won't be the first time or the last I'm sure). I have nothing in writing like the rest of you. On my list of Things-To-Do....

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  2. oo what a great post! I am in need of putting into place a reward system. We already do a lot of the same disciplining but I like the idea of rewarding good behavior as well!

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  3. Love this! Love the verses that you've chosen... I may have to steal yet another idea from you, my friend. Awesomeness!

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  4. Wow...I've been thinking about homeschooling, so I enjoy your tid bits!

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  5. Love the reward system. I like that rewarding only the good behavior. Great idea!
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  6. I can relate to your life a little. We have 4 (4,2,2,4 months). There are days when it is a little more difficult but nothing beats hearing my 4 year old tell me he loves me and his school in the middle of a lesson. What a blessing. He gets the idea that it may not be perfect but we love each other! Just like the rest of our life.

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  7. I have a friend who uses Accountable Kids with her boys. They have had a lot of success with it!

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  8. I love the Accountable Kids program. It sounds wonderful. I had never heard of it. Thanks for sharing!

    ~Jennifer

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