The definition of cancer in the dictionary is: A disease in which certain cells grow out of control and spread to other parts
of the body.
My definition is: PAIN, SORROW, NASTY, WICKED
This week has been a hard week for me. I had to say goodbye for now to a sweet sister in Christ who passed away to melanoma cancer. She fought it for 7 months and the Lord called her home. I met this sweet amazing woman a few years ago in a homeschool group I belonged to. And as the years went on we were in the same Bible study group and another homeschooling group together.
This women wasn't just anyone, she was a mom, wife, daughter, friend and sister in Christ. She lite up the room when she walked in with her beautiful smile. She encouraged me with my walk with the Lord. Her faith was incredible even till the very end when she lead a nurse in the hospital to the Lord. See she didn't throw herself a pitty party like I probably would have. What she wanted most was to glorify the Lord.
As I looked in her husbands and each of her 4 children (ages 10 and under) eyes Wednesday at her memorial service I saw peace. They knew that she was used by God. I love what her husband said, " cancer didn't kill my wife." Cancer can't live once the body dies, she is still alive but with Christ.
I will miss her deeply. I look back on her conversations and I will cherish them for the rest of my life. Her legacy will live on in my heart and all those who she impacted.
Her family has a wonderful support system of family and friends that will be there for them. I praise God, out of all 4 of her children the baby looks exactly like her. I believe God will do something amazing with this baby. He will know his mom by the legacy that she made. .
Her husband's faith is as amazing as hers was. He has a bumpy road ahead of him but with prayer and the Lord's guidance he will make it through.
Her passing has made me stop an evaluate myself. I know my friend would have wanted to spend the weeks upon her passing with her children instead of a treatment center. I have these 4 beautiful blessings God has given me that I get to spend everyday with. As a mom like my friend I want to take it all in, never miss an opportunity to hug my kids, tell them that I love them. Put all un-important things to the side for them. See she can't come back and hug her kids or tell them that she loves them but I am here now and I can. Please moms don't let a day that goes by and not hug or kiss your kids and tell that you love them. My oldest is 7 years old, I remember when he was born, years fly by. Soak it all in, enjoy your kids. I know my friend is with Jesus. To see our King face to face must be amazing and marvelous. I look forward to seeing her again someday but for now I look at what happened to my sweet friend and think what can I do differently to glorify my King? I am so thankful that her husband allowed her to homeschool or else I would have never met this precious woman.
Then my step sister was diagnosed with breast cancer. Within the next few weeks she will be having a mastectomy. My step sister is not only a mom and wife but she is a caregiver to her son who is paralyzed after a recent diving accident in the spring.
I have friends who have had this same diagnosis and have had the same surgery as my step sister and have been in remission for many years. I pray this will be the same as my step sister.
Her life is about to change, feeling helpless all we can do is pray for her. That God uses this to draw Himself to her.
I know God uses everything for the good of His glory.
Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
This is where faith comes in. Personally I am having a hard time with all this myself. I know God is in control and need to lean on Him and pray for my step sister and for my friends loved ones. Only He can guide them through and only He can give a peace that surpasses all understanding.
Why am I telling you all this? Because you never know what's going to happen from one day to the next. To have what my friend has, a Savior that she is now with face to face. I am so glad I made that decision years ago. It's not to late for those that do not have that. How can you have that?
1. Admit you are a a sinner (Romans 3:10)
2. Willing to turn from their sin. This is what the word repent means.(Acts 17:30)
3. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you, that He was buried and rose again from the dead to pay the price for their sins. (Romans 10:9-10)
4. Pray and invite Jesus into their hearts as their Lord and Saviour.(Romans 10:13)
Salvation Prayer (Say out loud this prayer for salvation)
Father, I am a sinner in need of your forgiveness. I ask you to forgive me of all my sins in Jesus name. I repent and turn from sinning and doing wrong, right now. I believe that Jesus died and rose again for my sin and I accept His payment. Jesus, I ask you to come into my heart, right now, and be my Lord and Saviour. Fill me with the Holy Spirit. I thank You, Lord, for hearing my prayer and coming into my heart and saving me according to Your word. I love You Lord, and I ask You to seal me in the blood of Jesus and help me to live for You all the days of my life.
In Jesus name Amen.
I recently saw this on a the street corner - so true!
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It's never too late to receive Christ, it's never too late to hug a friend, a family member or tell someone that you love them. It's never too late to share Christ with someone else. It's a choice.
I'm sorry for your loss and I pray your step sister has a complete recovery. I lost my Grandmother to Cancer a few years ago and it is a scary and awful thing. I commend your friend's husbands courage and faith.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about the lose of your friend. What a beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry Nicole. My prayers go out to you and her family.
ReplyDeleteMy grandpa was diagnosed with cancer, they removed it, and then just like 2 months later his entire body was filled with it.. His bones and everything. We lost him on July 26th, 2011. I definitely know that things can happen spontaneously, and I've learned to cherish every day, and always tell the people you care about you love them, because you never know what tomorrow might bring.
Thanks for sharing Nicole and thanks for being son bold with your testimony. A great and God-honoring way to use your platform. I am also very sorry to hear about your friend.
ReplyDeleteAwww I am sorry for your loss:-(
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteThis is some good advise, we should always treat our children like the blessings that they are. We are not promised tomorrow and more of us should act like we know it.
My brother was diagnosed with brain cancer last Halloween. He's only 33. He had brain surgery and is doing chemo. Praise God he is doing really well, but it was life changing for everyone in our family. Every Day Matters!
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you. My mom is a 12 year BC survivor and her sister is going on 6 months now. I am sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for your loss. I agree enjoy every moment as if it's your last. Cherish your kids.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to my friend:)Peace and Comfort to flood your heart daily!!!!
Love ya!!!
I am so sorry for all that you are enduring right now! You are definitely in my thoughts & prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for the loss of your friend.
ReplyDeleteI am SO sorry for your loss!
ReplyDeleteGod bless her family and yours. This has me in tears, I can't imagine having to leave my family behind. Thank you for sharing and bearing your soul to us.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear about your friend. I cannot wait until there is no more cancer - when we get to heaven.
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I am so sorry for your loss. :( Just recently, my young 40s Pastor found out his wife has terminal breast cancer. They have 4 kids together, the youngest is about 5. Cancer is so devastating.
ReplyDeleteMy grandfather died of cancer 17 years ago and it is still hard to think about how it ravaged his body to this day. I know you must be sad so positive thoughts are being sent your way!
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss. Praying that the lord will heal those who need it.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this inspiring, well-written post!
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and for all effected. I pray you and your family and friends can find peace through the sorrow, and comfort in the pain that comes from losing someone.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful, heartfelt post. I want to reach out and give you a hug. I lost a sister to breast cancer at age 46. I'm a breast cancer survivor... 7 years now. :) I lost both breasts to the disease and my life changed in many ways. I have heart damage from the chemo, but honestly the cancer brought many blessings to my life. I reconnected with God, and my husband and I realized we needed to get off the fast track with our jobs. We both work less now and spend more time together. Every day I know how blessed we are... even more now that we have a brand new grandson. My life has not played out how I expected it to, but I know it's working out according to God's plans, and that no matter what happens, it will be ok because as your friend's husband said, there is a beautiful life with Christ ahead.
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